Who to tell ...

I am going to split this into two different blogs (yesterday and today) from a new book I am reading - Wide Awake by Erwin Raphael McManus. Already, a chapter or so into this book, I am really enjoying it and it is challenging me. So here is the first lesson:

It comes from tapping into the dreams you have, those dreams that God implants within your mind, lays upon your heart. You know the things, those unique understandings, visions for the future, sometimes "out there" ideas that seem to right, yet very hard to see how it can actually come off.

The first reminder comes from Joseph, and you will read something of his experience in a moment. Erwin gives this advice - so think about it as you read this encounter - even if you are pondering a dream given to you by God, don't go telling everyone. Have a read:

Genesis 37 (New Living Translation)

Joseph’s Dreams

1 So Jacob settled again in the land of Canaan, where his father had lived as a foreigner 2 This is the account of Jacob and his family. When Joseph was seventeen years old, he often tended his father’s flocks. He worked for his half brothers, the sons of his father’s wives Bilhah and Zilpah. But Joseph reported to his father some of the bad things his brothers were doing. 3 Jacob loved Joseph more than any of his other children because Joseph had been born to him in his old age. So one day Jacob had a special gift made for Joseph—a beautiful robe. 4 But his brothers hated Joseph because their father loved him more than the rest of them. They couldn’t say a kind word to him. 5 One night Joseph had a dream, and when he told his brothers about it, they hated him more than ever. 6 “Listen to this dream,” he said. 7 “We were out in the field, tying up bundles of grain. Suddenly my bundle stood up, and your bundles all gathered around and bowed low before mine!” 8 His brothers responded, “So you think you will be our king, do you? Do you actually think you will reign over us?” And they hated him all the more because of his dreams and the way he talked about them. 9 Soon Joseph had another dream, and again he told his brothers about it. “Listen, I have had another dream,” he said. “The sun, moon, and eleven stars bowed low before me!” 10 This time he told the dream to his father as well as to his brothers, but his father scolded him. “What kind of dream is that?” he asked. “Will your mother and I and your brothers actually come and bow to the ground before you?” 11 But while his brothers were jealous of Joseph, his father wondered what the dreams meant. 12 Soon after this, Joseph’s brothers went to pasture their father’s flocks at Shechem. 13 When they had been gone for some time, Jacob said to Joseph, “Your brothers are pasturing the sheep at Shechem. Get ready, and I will send you to them.” “I’m ready to go,” Joseph replied. 14 “Go and see how your brothers and the flocks are getting along,” Jacob said. “Then come back and bring me a report.” So Jacob sent him on his way, and Joseph traveled to Shechem from their home in the valley of Hebron. 15 When he arrived there, a man from the area noticed him wandering around the countryside. “What are you looking for?” he asked. 16 “I’m looking for my brothers,” Joseph replied. “Do you know where they are pasturing their sheep?” 17 “Yes,” the man told him. “They have moved on from here, but I heard them say, ‘Let’s go on to Dothan.’” So Joseph followed his brothers to Dothan and found them there.

Joseph Sold into Slavery

18 When Joseph’s brothers saw him coming, they recognized him in the distance. As he approached, they made plans to kill him. 19 “Here comes the dreamer!” they said. 20 “Come on, let’s kill him and throw him into one of these cisterns. We can tell our father, ‘A wild animal has eaten him.’ Then we’ll see what becomes of his dreams!”

You see, not every person you might ant to tell, wants to hear what it is you might have to say. It may very well effect them in ways that they will not actually appreciate or even understand to begin with. Likewise, people are not always in the same space we are in to receive this "word", so use some discernment as to who you choose to tell, or to share this information with, this dream.

At times it is important to share with someone. To even clarify with another what it is God is saying to us. To check it out with them. Just be careful who it is. Look for someone who has a maturity about their spirituality. Someone who can even share the burden of the message you have until the time of fulfillment is revealed. Someone who has strong faith.